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Wedding Music Selection Guide: Creating the Perfect Soundtrack for Your Big Day

Music Budget Breakdown

  • Total budget: 5-10% of wedding expenses
  • Live band: $3,000-$7,000
  • DJ: $1,000-$3,000
  • Ceremony musician: $300-$1,000

Ceremony Music Essentials

Processional Options

  1. Classic Selections
    • Canon in D
    • Wedding March
    • Ave Maria
  2. Modern Alternatives
    • Contemporary love songs
    • Instrumental covers
    • Acoustic versions

Ceremony Music Placement

  • Prelude (30 minutes before)
  • Processional
  • Unity ceremony
  • Recessional
  • Postlude

Reception Music Strategy

Musical Timeline

  1. Cocktail Hour
    • Soft background music
    • Jazz or acoustic sets
    • Instrumental versions
  2. Dinner
    • Low-volume ambient music
    • Mix of genres
    • Avoid dance tracks
  3. Dance Floor
    • High-energy playlist
    • Mix of generations
    • Crowd-pleasing hits

Music Selection Tips

  • 70% crowd-pleasers
  • 20% wedding party favorites
  • 10% personal meaningful songs

Live Band vs. DJ Comparison

Live Band Pros

  • Unique energy
  • Interactive performance
  • Live instrumentation
  • Customizable setlist

Live Band Cons

  • Higher cost
  • Limited song repertoire
  • Breaks required
  • Less flexibility

DJ Pros

  • Vast music library
  • Lower cost
  • Easy song transitions
  • No performance breaks

DJ Cons

  • Less personal interaction
  • Potential cheesy behavior
  • Relies on equipment

Must-Have Song Categories

  1. First Dance
  2. Parent Dances
  3. Wedding Party Entrance
  4. Last Dance
  5. Cultural/Traditional Selections

Playlist Composition

Genre Balance

  • 40% Top 40/Current Hits
  • 30% Classic Dance Tracks
  • 15% Oldies/Classics
  • 15% Cultural/Personal Favorites

Avoid Playlist Mistakes

  • No offensive lyrics
  • Consider all age groups
  • Mix tempos and styles
  • Include guest requests

Technology Integration

  • Shared playlist apps
  • Request stations
  • Wedding hashtag playlist
  • Spotify collaborative lists

Budget-Friendly Music Options

  • Spotify playlists
  • Rental sound equipment
  • Friend/family DJ
  • Limited live music hours

Legal Considerations

  • Music licensing
  • Copyright compliance
  • Venue sound restrictions
  • Performance agreements

Final Checklist

  • Define music budget
  • Select ceremony music
  • Choose reception style
  • Create comprehensive playlist
  • Confirm equipment needs
  • Review performer contracts

Recommended Song Lists

First Dance

  1. “Perfect” – Ed Sheeran
  2. “All of Me” – John Legend
  3. “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis Presley

Parent Dances

  1. “My Wish” – Rascal Flatts
  2. “Isn’t She Lovely” – Stevie Wonder
  3. “What a Wonderful World” – Louis Armstrong

Emerging 2025 Trends

  • Personalized playlists
  • Interactive music experiences
  • Virtual request options
  • Multi-genre celebrations
  • Cultural fusion soundtracks

Conclusion

Your wedding music creates lasting memories. Choose wisely, stay true to your style, and keep your guests dancing!

Need more wedding planning tips? Check out our How to Plan a Dream Wedding on a Budget in 2025 guide!

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